Support Services

Supporting Parents

Our comprehensive, wraparound support services help foster and adoptive families succeed and build resilience.

Foster parenting is hard work. Navigating the adoption process is difficult. That’s why the Coalition has created a holistic network of support programs to help foster and adoptive families thrive.

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Educational Advocacy

Our Educational Advocates work with the child’s Educational Decision Maker to determine and secure appropriate school placement, obtain educational evaluations, ensure implementation of special education services, and protect student’s rights during suspensions. Additionally, our Educational Advocacy program strives to provide children with educational stability and personal growth while helping our caregivers become more astute advocates for their children.

Eligibility

  • Residing in St. Louis City, St. Louis County, St. Charles County with a child placed through foster care (no private guardianships/adoptions) with children age 3-20 years old
  • Residing near the St. Louis area with a child (3-20 years old) placed through foster care who is under the jurisdiction of St. Louis City, County and St. Charles County Courts
  • This child is experiencing an educational “barrier”- something getting in the way of a child’s educational success or access

Contacts

Beth Nesbit, Director of Educational Advocacy – 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373)

Helpful Links

Financial Resources for College, Education, and Training For Foster & Adoptive Youth and Foster Care Alumni

Family Works

Stressed? Need Help?

When a crisis erupts, enrolled families get help 24/7 with our FREE crisis intervention services for families in St. Louis City, St. Louis County, and St. Charles County. Trained staff are available 24/7 to help. Our program, Family Works, is available now for you!

You Are Eligible If You Are:

  • residing in St. Louis City, St. Louis County, or St. Charles County with a child placed through foster care (no private guardianships/adoptions)
  • with children age 3-19 years old
  • in crisis, faced with an immediate safety risk, or concerned for risk of out of home placement for the child.

Services made possible thanks to the St. Louis Mental Health Board (St. Louis City), Children’s Service Fund (St. Louis County), and Community and Children’s Resource Board (St. Charles County).

Contacts

Anne Zink – Director of Family Support
1750 South Brentwood Boulevard, Suite 210, Saint Louis, MO 63144
o 314.367.8373
e annezink@foster-adopt.org

Navigation & Support

The Navigation & Support program advocates for families to get the supports and services needed to stabilize placement. We bridge the gap between families and systems that offer support to the foster, adoptive and natural home settings.

Navigation & Support Programs

Family Work Steps

STEPS stands for Safety, Trauma/Attachment, Empowerment, Performance, and Stability. The STEPS Specialist acts as care coordination consultant, helping the youth and family navigate multiple systems by: Engaging the youth and family; Being a single point of contact; Facilitating communication among providers; Tracking outcomes; Providing referrals and linkages; Managing transitions; Providing supportive follow up. The STEPS Specialist helps the family drive the Service Plan to completion, navigating systems, and overcoming barriers.

Eligibility

  • St. Louis City, St. Louis County, Jefferson County and St. Charles County children ages 2-18
  • In foster care, adopted from foster care or in guardianship with a relative/kin
  • Are experiencing severe mental health concerns that put them at risk of psychiatric hospitalization, residential care or a placement change

Jefferson County Family Support Program

Jefferson County Family Support Program is a navigator program designed to meet the needs of the multi-systemic children in the Jefferson County region. The Family Support Specialist works collaboratively with partner agencies across the county to develop relationships which may be leveraged for the benefit of children and families served. The services provided by our Specialist include a mixture of direct and navigation services proven to prevent placement disruptions. The core focus areas of the work with families is as follows: Education, Mental Health, Parent Coaching and Behavioral Health, Kinship Navigation, Resource Referral, and Case-based Advocacy.

Eligibility

  • Families residing in Jefferson County or outside of Jefferson County caring for youth under the court jurisdiction of Jefferson County Family Court under the age of 19
  • In foster care, adopted from foster care or in guardianship with a relative/kin

Metro East Family Support Specialist

The Metro East Family Support Program is a navigator program designed to meet the needs of the multi-systemic children in the Metro East region. The Family Support Specialist is focused on supporting families to eliminate the need for disruptions in placements. Services provided by the Family Support Specialist include a mixture of direct and navigation services proven to prevent placement disruptions. Services include: increasing the partnership between the case manager and the family, assisting with educational issues, assisting with licensing requirements, parent coaching, addressing behavioral needs, helping to build the provider’s support network, and navigating through mental health services.

Eligibility

  • Families residing in the St. Louis Metro East or outside of St. Louis Metro East caring for youth under the court jurisdiction of the St. Louis Metro East Court under the age of 19
  • In foster care, adopted from foster care or in guardianship with a relative/kin

Contact

For more information about our programs contact Paula White, Director of Navigation and Support.

To make a referral to our programs call 314. 367. 8373 and ask to speak with intake, or email a brief description of the case to Paula White at paulawhite@foster-adopt.org.

Support Groups

Parent & Older Youth Support Groups

Any parent will tell you that foster care and adoption takes more than love, it takes skill, too! We offer a variety of skills-building support groups, free for parents and older youth. They are held at the Foster & Adoption Care Coalition office (1750 S. Brentwood Blvd., Ste. 210, St. Louis, MO 63144). You must register to attend by contacting Nickie Steinhoff at 800.FOSTER.3 (314.367.8373) x2235.

Foster/Adopt Parent Training

Licensed foster parents are required to complete 30 hours of in-service training per licensure period (every two years). The Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition hosts a number of parent workshops. These workshops will allow you to:

  • Connect with other parents to share resources
  • Learn how a child’s prior experiences can impact their behaviors
  • Explore ways to enhance your strengths as a parent
  • Share and learn new skills to influence your child’s behaviors and attitudes
  • Discover ways to reduce the stress of parenting

What Parents Have Said:

“Going through this [workshop] has really helped me to realize that the strong behaviors [my adopted son] had were not his fault, but also that they were not my fault!”

“It gives the opportunity for….real change and healing for the kids.”

Therapy Clinic

Cornerstones of Care and the Coalition have teamed up to provide therapy to address the unique needs of foster & adoptive families. As Kansas City’s leading name in trauma-informed therapy, Cornerstones of Care is uniquely qualified to serve local children impacted by foster care. St. Louis families can now receive this high quality of service right here at the Coalition office in Brentwood. ​

Foster/adoptive families often face unique challenges due to emotional, mental and/or physical trauma experienced by children in their care. The majority of families receive excellent support from existing programs and partnerships in the St. Louis community.

A small percentage of families need additional, more intensive services. The Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition will identify these families and connect them to Cornerstones of Care for outpatient counseling. Cornerstones of Care’s therapists are highly trained in the areas of trauma, attachment, and adoption. The Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition will augment the counseling with training and in-home services for the families.

For more information about our partner agency visit cornerstonesofcare.org​, or call 314-881-0350.

Contact

Dr. Lanette R. Madison, LCSW, DSW, MSW
Regional Director of Programs & Services Cornerstones of Care
lanette.madison@cornerstonesofcare.org

Little Wishes

Regular Little Wish referrals have closed for the year because of the Holiday Little Wishes program. The referral form will reopen in mid-February.

Birthday Buddies

Do you know a foster child who is likely to receive nothing or almost nothing for their birthday? The Coalition has a resource that can help – the Birthday Buddy program!

Through this program, generous individuals in the St. Louis community offer to become a Birthday Buddy and purchase birthday gifts for a child in foster care.  Foster parents/case managers must complete a Birthday Buddy application, providing the Coalition with general information about the child and birthday present ideas, which will be posted on our website. If a child is matched with a donating Birthday Buddy, the foster parent/case manager must pick up the birthday presents at our Birthday Buddy Co-Coordinator’s home in Kirkwood, Missouri or Bethalto, Illinois.

For a foster parent/case manager to enroll their foster child in the “Birthday Buddy” program:

  1. The foster parent/case manager must complete and submit the application below.
  2. The child MUST currently be in foster care (not adopted or guardianship).
  3. The foster child must be likely to receive nothing or almost nothing for their birthday.
  4. Applications must be submitted at lease one month prior to the child’s birthday.
  5. Applications must be submitted no more than four months before the child’s birthday.

Birthday Buddy Referral Form (Click to Expand)







    Your Information

    Name (Required)

    Relationship to Child (Required)

    Email (Required)

    Cell Phone

    Home Phone

    Work Phone

    Address Where the Gifts Should be Mailed (Required)

    City (Required)

    State (Required)

    Zip (Required)

    Caseworker Information

    Caseworker Name (Required)

    Caseworker Phone Number (Required)

    Foster Child's Information

    Child First Name Only (Required)

    Child Date of Birth (Required)

    Age of Child on his/her Birthday (Required)

    Is this child likely to receive little or nothing for their birthday? (Required)
    YesNo

    How long has this child been in foster care? (Required)

    Birthday Information

    What would the child like for their birthday? Please be specific. Items must be valued at $25 or less. If clothing, please specify size. (Required)

    Describe the child's personality, talents and interests. Give specific examples and detail (Required):

    Release Form

    Do you agree to pick up the gifts in Kirkwood, MO or Bethalto, IL within 7 days of being notified? (Required)
    YesNo

    By completing and signing this application, I hereby request to enroll the foster child in my physical custody in the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition’s Birthday Buddy program. 1. I understand there is no guarantee that my foster child will be matched with a Birthday Buddy. I understand that I will be contacted if the child is matched; 2. I understand that the Birthday Buddy program is completely dependent on the generosity and responsibility of others. I understand that even if my foster child is matched with a Birthday Buddy, circumstances beyond the Coalition’s control may prevent my foster child from receiving presents through the Birthday Buddy program. 3. If my foster child is matched with a Birthday Buddy, I agree to pick up the donated birthday presents in a timely fashion. I understand that I must pick up these birthday presents at one of the Birthday Buddy Coordinators’ homes in Kirkwood, Missouri or Bethalto, Illinois. 4. I promise to inform the Coalition if the foster child is removed from my physical custody before their birthday. 5. I promise that we will write a thank you note to the Birthday Buddy within 14 days of receiving the birthday present. I will send the thank you note to the Birthday Buddy Coordinator, to be forwarded to the Birthday Buddy. 6. I attest that the information in this Birthday Buddy application is true to the best of my knowledge and belief.

    By typing your full name below, you electronically acknowledge reading and understanding the above information. You state that all of the information you provided is true.

    ReFresh & ReSource

    ReFresh

    ReFresh is a Fashion Forward Resale Boutique with great clothes and accessories for everyone, from designer items to vintage finds.

    Youth in foster care can receive a 90% discount on clothing and accessories at ReFresh. Foster/Adoptive/Kinship families can receive a 30% discount on items at ReFresh.

    ReSource

    ReSource offers free clothing for kids ages 0-12. This store is reserved for foster/adoptive families.

    Hours: Wednesdays from 9am-1pm and Saturdays from 10am-1pm. Closed 4th of July.

    Location: It is located at 1750 S. Brentwood Blvd, Suite 130.

    Please come with confirmation of your status as a foster/adoptive parent.

    Contact Stephanie Fisher, Director of ReSource, at 314.367.8373 or stephaniefisher@foster-adopt.org  for questions.

    Visit our Facebook page for more information.

    High School Senior Pictures

    A few photographers have offered to take senior pictures for high school senior students who are currently in foster care. The photographers will provide a free 60 minute photo shoot and free digital images (on CD or over the internet, depending on photographer preference). Foster parents and case managers of high school seniors in foster care can get contact information for these photographers by filling out the information below.

    By completing and signing this application, I hereby request information about photographers who will provide a free 60 minute photo shoot as well as free digital images from that shoot to youth in foster care who are seniors in high school.

    (1) I understand the photographers are not employed by the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition. I understand that the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition is completely dependent on the generosity and responsibility of these photographers and that the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition does not guarantee these complimentary photographic services.
    (2) I understand that these photographers are typically paid for their photographic services and that they may have more than one photo shoot booked each day. If I make an appointment with one of these photographers, I agree to ensure that the youth will arrive on time for the appointment.
    (3) If an appointment must be cancelled, I agree to inform the photographer at least one week in advance.
    (4) I understand that this is a free service being provided, and that the Foster & Adoptive Care Coalition cannot make any guarantee that the youth, foster parent and/or case manager will be satisfied with the quality of the photographs taken.
    (5) I understand that the photographer is providing a complimentary 60 minute photo shoot and that the photographs will be shared with the youth digitally (via the internet or on CD – whichever the photographer prefers). I promise not to ask for additional free services or products from the photographer.

    By typing your full name and initials below, you electronically acknowledge reading, understanding, and agreeing to the above information. You state that all of the information you provided is true.

    Student must be a high school senior in foster care.

      Project SOAR

      About Project SOAR

      The purpose of Project SOAR is to assist with transitioning children in foster care out of a residential treatment facility and into an appropriate community placement.  The primary responsibility of Project SOAR will be to lead the youth’s child welfare team in developing and executing a Community Support Plan, which will address lifelong connections, mental health, medical, educational, and overall personal needs that will assist with the child’s transition and help stabilize them in an appropriate community placement.

      Eligibility

      • Ages: 3-21
      • Youth in foster care, residing in a residential facility in the St. Louis area.
      • Youth in foster care, under the jurisdiction of Jefferson County, St. Charles County, St. Louis City, and St. Louis County.

      Referrals

      Referrals must be made by a member of your professional team.

      • For more information about programs and to make a referral, please contact Cisely Beard, Director of Advocacy and Support, at 314-367-8373 (800-FOSTER-3) or email: ciselybeard@foster-adopt.org.

      Diligent Search for Dads

      Diligent Search for Dads Overview

      Diligent Search for Dads is a brief support program designed to locate and notify dads of children in foster care. Diligent Search for Dads uses searching techniques similar to 30 Days to Family® and Extreme Recruitment,® but uniquely for dads. The Diligent Search for Dads Specialist will make contact with the father by phone, or in person, and provide contact information for the Case Manager or Deputy Juvenile making the referral. The Case Manager or Deputy Juvenile Officer will also receive a closing summary with details of the searching efforts, and information for how to contact the dad. Referrals can also be made for moms.

      Program Goals

      • Successfully locate and notify 90% of fathers referred to the program.

      Important Documents

      Referrals

      To make a referral: For more information, please contact Michael Hall at 314-367-8373. Referrals to the program can be made at any time, as long as the child is in foster care. The referral must be completed by the child’s Case Manager or Deputy Juvenile Officer. Please utilize the referral form and consent linked above, and contact Michael Hall at Michaelhall@foster-adopt.org (Office: 314.367-8373, Cell: 314.808.1293) or fax to 314-241-0715.